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User first (nick)name | Laetitia |
Birthday | Jan//1964 |
Sign of the Zodiac | Aquarius |
Gender | Female |
Orientation | Heterosexual |
Type of Relationship | for romance, for long relationship, for friendship, for dating only |
Country | South Africa |
City | Villiersdorp |
Height | 5'2" (157cm) |
Weight | 155 lbs (70kg) |
Hair color | Brown |
Eyes color | Other |
Ethnicity | White/Caucasion |
Known languages | English |
Job | self employed |
About me |
How do I respond to the ‘what are you looking for’ question? It feels like no matter what I say it’s never the right answer. If I say I want a relationship I feel like that reads as ‘I’m desperate to get married and have babies’ which I’m not (been there, done that). And, if I say I’m open to something casual then it reads as ‘I have no self-worth, this is an open invitation for you to use me for ... without any regard for my feelings or basic human decency’ (100% nope). I also hate that I might unintentionally give the other person certain expectations or drive them away before I’ve had a chance to get to know them and figure out what, if anything, I want from them. Personally, I don’t go looking for a particular type of relationship. I just look for someone I connect with and hope that we are both on the same page. Sometimes it leads to a long-term monogamous relationship, sometimes it leads to something more casual but equally fulfilling, sometimes it leads to a whole lot of drama, and sometimes it doesn’t lead to anything. Personally I’m open to a range of relationship options – depending on who the other person is, what our chemistry is like, and what else is going on in my life at the time. The only things I am 100% not open to are BS drama and being treated like crap. So how do I answer the question in a way that helps me filter out the jerks and time wasters whilst still keeping my options open? |
Seeking gender | Male |
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