Romance is a type of initiation of feelings to quench immediate thirst of sex, its nothing starts from feelings and intense desire of sex, a person of matched stars with another person, enjoys it, but if unmatched it fails, love is another thing, its a real relationship state, but in this world its very rare to find, because, all are running behind, the temporary things, which shows affection, necessity, a type of addiction, but a real love is when a person thinks or do for somebody, without thinking the benefits what he/she will get from it. I think nobody in this world loves someone other in real, everyone loves himself/herself, and complete their desires by pretending of love.
if that is what ur initiation??why don’t u try in real life in real person...don’t forget that we are using internet. we don’t know if u are talking to a lier, scammer, not a real person,etc. but romance is in real life and yes u are probably right for what u desire then why u cannot find a nice woman or man , why are u here??although romance for mostly is in that way.