Okay... let’s get a thing or two out in the open: I’m no male supermodel. I dont have a gazillion euro’s, or a freakin’ mansion...
I’m just an ordinary guy. I just want someone to share my life with... - I dont fool around... - I dont care about fashion, but dress stylish - in my own opinion at least... - I’m a loving, caring guy... - I have a good job, earning a nice living..
And so on.
All this should - according to women (!) - mean, that I was a pretty decent catch.
But... It seems like, everytime I meet someone, that’s what women SAY they want - not WHAT they want.
So, I’m confused. What the F... do women actually want?
RS I don’t know what they want either. Focus on what you can give a woman and I don’t mean material things as that will only end unhappily. You seem to be an intelligent, sensitive guy and women look for that. But don’t play that card too early. You’ve got to make them work for it first. Make yourself something of a challenge and be selective. They do want you said above, just not right away.
I’m new here but it seems to me that women will have a preconceived idea of what they want in a man and once they find their ideal man and settle down they proceed on a project to change that man and when they have accomplished that transformation they start longing for the original version. Confusing? What’s really going on here?