Love is all about sacrifice, when you are in love, or claim to love someone, you want to give all you have to make it work. either your time, finances, knowledge or advice to help the other person grow. lovers are supposed to assist each other irrespective of the other position. their mindset should be their goal which is been happy. if you say you love me, then you will give me what you know would benefit me and you. likewise i to you.